If you really want to impress her, no matter how much you do or do not have to spend, you need to remember one rule so simple most guys overlook it.
She will be impressed when she can see how thoughtful you were in picking her gift.
Buying gifts for her can cause headaches for some guys and heartache for others. I know plenty of guys who stress and worry about what they should buy. “Do you think she will like it?” is a common question asked by men all over the world. Let’s face it, guys give gifts to try and impress women. You hope to see that sparkle in her eyes and her smile that tells you your gift was the right choice. It does not get much better than a hug from a girl who really appreciates the gift you give her. Not much.
Sometimes you get it right and sometimes you don’t. You could spend every dime you had if you wanted to and you could still not impress her if you fail to understand what it is that will impress her. Not every woman wants the over the top extravagance that most guys would love to shower them with. Of course, in your blind desire to impress upon her that you are the one you usually go beyond what is necessary.
If you want to impress a girl with a gift you need to take time and think about what will be thoughtful to her. Give it some honest to goodness thought. Take your time and think about her personality, her style, her likes and dislikes, her lifestyle, her free time activities, and even her career. You might even consider what she dreams about, and I mean the things she hopes and wishes for, and then find a gift that shows you understand, you support, and you believe. You will impress her.
My wife loves cats and she has simple yet elegant taste. She has told me on several occasions that if she could she would do nothing but run a place to take care of cats needing care. You do not forget that kind of stuff, not if you hope to sustain a long term relationship with a good woman. I have seen her eyes light up when giving her a gift related to cats. Nothing terribly fancy or expensive, but thoughtful and from the heart. What impresses her most is the thoughtfulness of the gift, not the price tag.
No matter how much you spend, she will be impressed when she can see how thoughtful you were in picking her gift. Thoughtful works.
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